Options. I can characterize my life by the abundance of options. Having
had the option to have so many options, I have become something of an
ingrate. This is something I actively attempt to undo on a daily basis.
Fear,
in essence, is an option. There are those who run away from their
fears, and then there are those who face them head on. I think I fall
somewhere in between. But then there are those cases where fear
transcends being fear and transforms into reality. Fear is no longer an
option but is now the life you are living.
I don't normally do
this, but it's been a pressing concern. I don't know how many people
read this blog of mine, but I need to make a plug for this and I don't
care how un-blog/column-like it sounds. One of my cousin's best
friends, Michelle, recently got diagnosed with leukemia. She is 25. And
while treatment is thus far looking promising, there is someone who has
not been so fortunate.
It is incredibly difficult to find a bone
marrow match for a minority. If your siblings are not a match, you'd
better start searching. Supposedly, for a caucasian, there will
typically be up to 15 matches already in the database, but for Vinay
Chakravarthy, after having 162 donor drives and 9458 people registered,
he's left scrambling. We're talking days, not months or years.
I
read an article in the recent Vanity Fair - the Africa edition, guest
edited by Bono. And Mr. Grammy winning Do-Gooder-Multi-Hyphenate goes
on to say:
"This is an emergency - normal rules don't apply.
There are no easy good or bad guys. Do you think an African mother
cares if the drugs keeping her child alive are thanks to an iPod or a
church plate? Or a Democrat or a Republican? I don't think that mother
gives a damn about where that 20-cent pill comes from, so why should
we. It can lead to some uncomfortabloe bedfellows, but sometimes less
sleep means you are more awake."
And he's right. How or why you
get swabbed is irrelevant. There's this book called the Lazy
Environmentalist by Josh Dorfman. Basically, the idea is to seamlessly
incorporate green living into your daily routine without altering your
quality of life. Modern living seems to revolve around convenience. Go
ahead. Be a lazy bone marrow donor. If you are or have any friends who
are South Asian (or Chinese-Viet or anything else),
please..
what is keeping you? Consider sacrificing one lazy Saturday afternoon,
lunch hour at work, or trip to the Fillmore district to get swabbed.
You may potentially save a life.
The following site will have all the information you need in terms of procedures and upcoming drives:
www.helpvinay.org
Help Vinay.
*edit*
Also important to note that after you register to be a donor, please
FOLLOW THROUGH and be a COMMITTED donor! Vinay actually found a match,
but was devastated to learn that the potential donor decided not to go
through with the bone marrow transfer process.